Sunday, October 3, 2010

Graduate School

Though it is much too soon after moving here to Riverside to give a fair assessment of my circumstances, I'm going to attempt to summarize what has been going on. 
Apartment life is good. I love my roommate dearly. She's like a big sister to me, and since I've never had a big sister that's definitely appreciated in my new environment. The major difficulty is making myself cook. With practice I will get accustomed to making food for myself every day, but I have already had to learn to fight the urge to go out to eat all the time when I just don't feel like making something. It does get a little quiet around here especially compared to living in a dorm, but every day at 4:00 I hear the ice cream truck when the kids get home from school and remember that there's a world out there.
My program has been treating me very mildly so far. I have two classes and I spend about 15 hours a week doing my TA job between leading discussions, grading and attending the lecture for the class. No homework of my own yet, but that will come soon enough.
The few friends I've made remind of people I used to know from high school and it's a harder transition to go back to public school than I anticipated. After 12 years of it prior to Biola I thought it wouldn't be a big deal but I was wrong. While they are very likable people, it is bothersome to me that they consider their research the most important thing in their life and it would be the end of their world if they didn't make it through the program to get their Ph.D's. My values completely conflict with theirs and while God has already given me several opportunities to share my faith, it is hard being one of the few Christians around here. The lack of Torrey is killing me. While we all had a differences and our points of view didn't always align, we could at least try to discuss them reasonably knowing that on the fundamentals we absolutely agreed. This week I will be attending a couple of different Christian group meetings on campus to see if I can get connected with other Christians. Not to mention, I'm a little homesick.
My life really isn't that depressing and I know that as things get busier and I meet more people, the easier the transition will be. Please be praying for me as the quarter (yes, the semester system is long gone) gets underway.


Lydia

1 comment:

  1. Lydia, I totally agree and sympathize. It's the same way at USC - people hang everything they are on the degree and job they're going to get. It's... hard. I'm really glad that you've already shared your faith a lot, though. That's great.

    Remember that it's not impossible to drive home sometimes, or to drive over to visit yours truly, or some such, at times.

    I hope your time at UCR continues to improve and that you find your place.

    But I bet we will be missing Francis for the rest of our lives, at least a little. Missing Francis... and looking forward to a much more glorious time in heaven.

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